Everything in life can not all follow your will. Have lost have been. Learning to let go is also important to step maturity.
Three stories of the ancients will teach you about win, losing, way life and living in life. If you apply in your life, you will find life lessons for yourself.
In that time, the great genaral of Han Dynasty is Han Tin was being humiliated by a thug, a thug took Han Tin go through his crotch. This is for anyone who is big humiliation, the other person will hug shame and seek revenge against the other. But with Han Tin, he has a way “revenge” to next generations extremely admired.
After Han Tin was Luu Bang as a the department of the Kingdom. Han Tin comeback to his hometown, Han Tin command for servants call the thug in the past. This guy kneeling on the ground very scared, he think he will to die today.
Han Tin did not executed the thug, he even allowed him to be the lieutenant, in charge of security and patrol in the city.
Everyone was surpriced in this time. Han Tin said with martial: ” This is the guy. In the past when he humiliated me, i can kill him but i didn’t. I kill him, i will sentenced to death but i want to be a great man and i cant kill him. Today i have a career path, thanks to his incourage. I cant kill a genius bucause of my condition. If i dont throw away the resent and hurt of the individual behind, then i am still only a poor Korean beggar that year.
Lesson learned: People who have big spirit, they are person of generous and tolerance, can withstand oppressive and humiliation, forgot all the suffering in the past, do anything you will successful. People always have hatred in your heart, cant permanetly do great things.
When a goat rests on grass, there will be a standing guard on guard. The goat will be in charge of listing around, just have unsual thing its will be loud to warn other people.
After time looking for, the wolf think a solution. It is go streat into the sheep, waiting for the goat to guard it will hide in the nearby. The goat after many times to run away there is nothing dangerous, the goat to guard the “make yourself afraid”.
The goat watch also did not react. Waiting for another time the wolf continues to play games, it does not sound any more, just quietly leave alone. As a result, the whole herd of goats was nearly half dead.
Lesson learned: Living in life, loyal people are often misunderstood. Unfortunately, after many suspicions, they are no longer loyal to their loyalty.
One of the pilgrims asked a high monk in the pagoda: “Before he attained enlightenment, what did he do?” The monk replied, “Cut wood, boil water, cook rice.”
The pilgrim asked again: “So after the enlightenment, what do you do?” The high replied: “Wood, boiling water, cooking rice.”
The pilgrims heard it very difficult to understand, so asked: “Do so how can he be enlightened?” The monk said: “Before the enlightened, when I cut wood will remember to boil water, When cooking water to remember cooking rice, when cooking rice will remember to cut firewood; After cutting down the wood, cutting wood, boiling water, then boil water, cooking rice is cooked only “.
Lesson learned: Sometimes you do not succeed, not because you do little. You may do a lot of work, but at the same time think too much, worry before worry, fear this one is not doing anything else.