I suffer to understand myself, complaining to others only brings contempt. Disregard, strong, let go is the bravery of a stable person!
My own tears wipe, my own suffering is still the best
There was a couple who had been married for 12 years and there are for long time they giving birth a child. For them, the child is a treasure, extremely precious. The whole family lived happily, but an unexpected disaster struck their small family.
Early one morning when his son was two years old, the husband went to work and found an open bottle of medicine on the table. Because he was in a hurry to work, he didn’t put the medicine bottle away, but he also loudly told his wife: “Remember to put the medicine bottle away, don’t let the children play.” Then he rushed to work.
The wife was busy in the kitchen, so she forgot her husband’s instructions.
The boy was playing in the living room alone, saw the colorful bottle, so he climbed onto the table, reached for the bottle and drank the medicine in the bottle. This drug can be deadly, even adults can only take small amounts. Although the wife quickly took her son to the emergency room, she still could not save the child’s life.
For such an incident, the wife was afraid of being dumbfounded, and her son suddenly died because of a little carelessness. She was in so much pain that she didn’t want to live, didn’t know how to deal with this.
Listen to bad news, the husband go to the hopital, his heart is very mesery. In the morning still see the son but now is dieHearing the bad news, the husband ran to the hospital, his heart was extremely sad and pitiful. In the morning, I saw my son healthy and happy, now dead. But he didn’t say anything, went to his wife and hugged her and said: “I love you. I’m here”.
Life has its ups and downs, that’s what we have to accept. Be a strong inner person who can deal with people with work calmly, not people who are desperate in life.
We often compare ourselves to others. Seeing people who are superior to you, you feel inferior and jealous, and when you are better than others, you are proud of yourself. In fact, each person has a destiny, a life path, no one is the same and that is the richness of life.
Maturity is letting go
We always have two choices, choose to “hold on” or choose to “let go”, but we always aspire to get what we want, even though sometimes that choice brings a lot of suffering. We also often forget that we still have another choice.
When we understand the true meaning of the two words “let go”, it is also time to understand the meaning of losing the east, gaining the west, although losing one but gaining another. Broadly speaking, failure in one area is ultimately an achievement in another. We just haven’t been able to see it yet.
Understanding the true meaning of letting go is when we learn to calmly observe things and feel the vast beauty of this world. That is the time when we perceive an inner calm like water, understand the meaning of the two words “happiness” that we are always pursuing.
Maturity is more practical, and also more rational. Learn to be yourself and let go of things that don’t belong to you.