Living in life, have lucky also have risky, what we need to do is when the mosoon comes, we must stand firmly and wait for it to come. Big is fine, small is fine. Just be “okay”, just calm down, you will win.
01: Stable, calm
One famous scholar said: “Everything needs to be resolved in a calm and slow manner, if panic, it will inevitably go wrong, mistake.”
Emotional stability, calm, getting out of chaos, you can cope with all difficulties.
Ancient people said: “if you know where to stop it will be stable, stable will be calm mind, calm mind will be safe, then you can think, think carefully, then you will obtain it.”
Calm mind makes people rational, through calm observation, we will more easily judge the situation and make more reasonable judgments.
02: Flexible, adaptable
Flexibility is the foundation of wisdom. Do whatever you do, don’t be too rigid and conservative.
Must learn to be adaptable, flexible, so that you can adapt to situations or environments full of uncertainties, find strategies and methods to deal with it.
Flexible and proactive people, even throw they wherever, they can find a way to survive, while passive and inflexible people often waste a lot of great opportunities.
Stubbornness is different from persistence, because stubbornness, not flexible to adapt to each situation, otherwise it will only harm yourself.
Going to the end of the road doesn’t mean at all, it’s about time to turn.
When the road runs out, change to another road, change to another persistent way.
The great chemist Otto Wallach, at first he chose the literary path, with no results.
He switched to oil painting, the teacher remarked “simply has no potential”.
After that, he moved on to study chemistry, and later won the Nobel Prize in the field.
One actor once said, “Quit intelligently, rather than blindly stubborn.”
Self-discipline is not really a form of self-abuse, but it’s about setting goals and then putting in effort and perseverance.
04: Independent, not blindly listening to the crowd
In psychology, there is an effect called the crowd psychology effect. In a crowd, every behavior and emotion is highly contagious.
Many times, we are like a sheep in a flock of sheep, without prejudice, in a herd atmosphere, we blindly obey the rules set by others.
Blindly follow a certain movement without understanding the motives and reasons, it only shows that you are a childish, immature and without prejudice.
So always maintain yourself a sane part, not blindly listen to the crowd.
05: Let go, forgive
Regardless of whether it’s big or small, we all need composure and generosity.
Hugging too much, it is difficult to avoid being beaten down by troubles and worries.
The ability to handle everything determines your life, but the mindset in handling everything is the “upper limit” of life.
The real letting go, is no longer controlled by emotions, not bound by suffering, is reconciled to life.